about Christine

48 year old woman, 5' 5" (165cm). Is looking for a relationship. likes kissing for no reason, dancing in the kitchen, and snuggling.

It would be nice to meet a good man that isn’t controlling, jealous and that makes an effort to show an interest in who I am and not just in my pictures. I’m looking for someone to treat me like a lady, open doors for me, pump my gas, hug me from behind for no reason, rub my long hair, kiss me every day like it’s the first kiss. But I’m not on here for a one-night stand or a hookup. And, most of all, I’d like for you to love God and treat my children as their own.

I don’t date married or separated men. If you’re separated, you’re still married. I’m very independent and self-sufficient. So, please don’t confuse the two. There’s a difference between wanting a man and needing a man. I’m not a gold digger, nor am I looking to support a man. You must have a good job and transportation. (A job that doesn’t compensate you for selling drugs).

I’m not a skinny girl . . . but Tara full figured healthy girl. I work out 5 days a week and try to take care of myself. So, if you’re into skinny, I’m not your type. There’s more to know about me, but I’ll save that for someone who is truly interested in getting to know a good woman.

You said you want to meet a “nice and good man.” How are you going to do that on here, Christine, when your profile is just a lecture? Men don’t like being lectured by women. So what kind of man do you think you are going to attract on here? More than likely, the couple of good men on this website are just going to pass you by.

Your pictures don’t look recent. That is not a 48 year old woman in the first two pictures you have posted. Also, we can tell the size of the woman from her pictures—and definitely by looking at her upper arms and her neck; we know women pose a certain way and wear certain clothes to make themselves look smaller and skinnier and to hide what they think are flaws. You’ve done that in each of your pictures, but then in the text of your profile you throw red flags about how you look and tell them you are not skinny. That contradiction makes no sense and it shows insecurity. So don’t be surprised if you’re having bad luck on here.

All that being said, now let me ask you this, Christine. How do you feel being lectured to?

I clicked on your main picture because you looked really good, and I saw you had two more photos. So I looked at those two and said, “Finally, a great looking 40 year old woman on this website.” And then I read your profile.

You want someone to hug you, snuggle with you, and kiss you every day like it’s your fist kiss. All women want that. You’re a romantic, and you want romance. Most women are; most women do, too. Men find this out the hard way and way too late, and it’s half the reason why half of them are on this dating website. But if you still have to tell the new men coming into your life to do these things, then they are not right for you and vice versa. All the men here now know they have to grow, to make major changes in their personality and behavior, and to be more romantic. Don’t tell them to do it. Go out with them on a date to determine if they are going to be this romantic without pretending and without doing it just because you said so. You need to see their true persona instead of an act they are performing. If they are simply going through the motions, then they are not really doing it to make you happy. They are doing it for ulterior motives. That certainly is not good for you.

Christine, your hair is fabulous, and you look sexy in glasses, and if that third picture is recent, you do look very good. Compared to the other women in the Gulport-Ocean Springs region, you don’t even look like you’ve had children. You ended your profile by saying, “There’s more to know about me.” But the majority of men reading your profile are going to believe they already know what they need to know about you. So, Christine, stop ruining all the good stuff you have with a criticizing lecture that makes you sound jaded. I want to think you were just having a bad day when you wrote that profile, and I believe you really do have a great deal of good stuff that men still need to learn about.